Free advice I've taken

I'm an over-communicator in an attempt to avoid misunderstanding. I find that I'm frequently misunderstood so I get caught clarifying endlessly, often to no avail, as I've learned that my thought process is VERY different than most of my peers so most often not well-received. I'm always working on that but I admit that I don't really know how to 'fix' myself. Believe me, I've tried. I try. 

If the mere thought of having the conversation causes discomfort, the conversation is vital 🤷‍♀️ and the success or failure of said relationship hinges on the ability to have that conversation.